Cuckolding for Beginners is the guide for you!! Welcome! There are many versions of cuckolding, but for this guide we are going to focus on your wife having sex with another man with you in the room. When you have had good communication and you are in a solid place in your relationship, this dynamic can be one of the most fulfilling and sexiest experiences on the planet. So where do you begin? Keep reading guys!

Introducing Cuckold Communication

Ok Luvs, if you have not done so, your first task will be getting your wife/girlfriend on board for cuckolding. There are many great ways to introduce the concept to her and I have posted that here: How to Get Your Wife Interested in Cuckolding.

Once you have gone through that post and have a good handle on introducing the subject to your wife then you can begin the next step, communication. It’s important you both know what is on and off the table. In other words what you are both looking to get out of the experience, your desires, fears, hopes, all of that. To make this a positive experience for both of you, you must know each other’s boundaries. Remember that is no right or wrong way to cuckold, it’s really about what works for the both of you, and of course the bull you will bring to the bed.

Cuckolding Questions for Discussion

So you are sitting on the bed looking at each other trying to figure out what to do next. Now is the time to really hone in to the type of experience you are each looking for. Below you will find a list of questions, by no means are these all the questions you could ask, but this is a good starting point to get you thinking.

1. As the husband, do you want to watch? Be in the other room? Or do you want her to have this experience away out of sight? Many guys enjoy hearing the details about their hotwife being fucked without being present. Others have a deep need to be in the room. What’s your preference?

2. What is on and off the table? Can she suck his cock? When he fucks her are you using a condom? Does she want anal play? Do you as the husband. want to feel humiliated? Are you looking for them to say humiliating things to you during the experience? Will there be a safe word if either of you gets uncomfortable?

3. Do you seek a one-time experience or an ongoing dynamic with a bull?

4. Do you want the experience at home or at a hotel?

5. If you, as the husband are participating, in what capacity do you want to do so? Do you wish to be the Fluffer and suck his cock to get him ready for her? Will you be the clean up boy? Do you want him to fuck you as well as her?

6. Will you be in chastity? Or will you be allowed to masturbate while watching? What rules are being set up for you?

7. Is anything off the table? Anything that would make either of you uncomfortable?

Cuckolding for Beginners Guide: Finding Your Bull

Now that you have established what you are both looking for, it’s time to start looking for your bull. This can be both fun and a tad stressful, so know that going in. The search may take some time, be patient, and trust your gut. If something feels off, walk away, shut it down.

It’s important to remember safety first in all things. You want to find someone that is a good fit for the both of you but someone you know is trustworthy and safe! Choosing not to use condoms is a huge decision and must be made carefully. If that is the route you choose to go you must be sure the bull is vetted and has been tested for any sexually transmitted diseases.

Depending on the experience you are looking to have, will affect the type of bull you are seeking. For example, if you, as the husband, do not wish to interact directly and just watch, than you won’t be seeking a bull that is bi-sexual.

Cuckolding for Beginners Where do you look as complete newbies?

If you haven’t already, you will find several BDSM apps through your phone, AND cuckolding dating websites. My number one place to begin your search is a website called, Fetlife. It’s a cross between a social media site meets dating website.

It’s worldwide and has forums just about every place on earth. You can go into your city or the nearest city to where you are and post a free classified add. Be a specific as you can so a bull knows exactly what you seek. Think about the details here and don’t be shy! You want to find the right guy.

Remember the list of questions I suggested above for you and your partner to discuss? It’s time to create a list of questions for your potential bull? These can be discussed on a phone call. Remember, don’t be shy, if you are curious about something, now is the time to ask.

Cuckolding for Beginners: Meet and Greet

If you are pleased with your initial phone call or two, a meet up in a public place is a great next step. The goal of this meet up is to simply see if everybody vibes and if there is attraction. This is truly the get to know you phase. Does he tick all the boxes you need ticked? Do not plan on hitting anybody’s bedroom for this meet. Baby steps. Remember, slow and steady win the race.

Stay tuned for Cuckolding for Beginners Part 2 where I will talk about: Your first encounter, supporting your partner, and the aftermath.

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